*TW* (language/medical) NHS

i wanna fucking scream. WHAT THE FUCK IS THE POINT OF THE FUCKING NHS IF THEY NEVER DO JACK SHIT TIL ITS TOO FUCKING LATE?!?!?!

my best mates dad, he's a fucking WICKED bloke, n he's pulled me outta a few tight spots, tho he never had to. hes one of the nicest guys you'd ever meet, heart of pure bloody gold, no matter what. one of the few truly good to the core people on this planet.

hes been ill for fucking ages, n the nhs has been 'unable' to figure out why (more truthfully, they aint FUCKING BOTHERED trying. at ALL!) and now they finally got their fucking answer, guess what, ITS TOO FUCKING LATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lung cancer, that has metastasized to his brain.

if theyd done their FUCKING jobs when he first fucking went, they coulda stopped this. they coulda, but they didnt AND I WANNA KNOW WHY.

NO fucking excuse will do. there is NO reason. they were SHIT from start to FUCKING finish, n now its too fucking late, n theres an AMAZING man who shoulda had such a different fucking outcome.

ITS FUCKING BULLSHIT

oh my god mate, thats awful... im so sorry to hear that

there really is no excuse for them not to have ran tests - laziness is the only explanation. cant be fucked to send of a few simple tests all because they couldnt be arsed, and now its caused a good man to be losing his life?

im so sorry seb, really i am... by biggest condolences to you and your best friend... i hope somehow that theres a way for him to live a longer life

thanks mate, appreciate ya reply.

dont think theres a lot more i can say. i just had to get the rant out there before i thumped something. i tell ya tho, any shred of confidence i had left in the NHS has long since fucked off. usually im the guy saying 'come on, for a free service the NHS aint bad', but now, i disagree with meself. fuck em. a year n a fucking half. fuck em.

i really dunno what to do. cos however shit im feeling, she'll be feeling a million times shitter, n him probly shitter still, n im sat here drinking tea >.< not that theres fuck all i can do, but ya know how it is. i just wanna... fix things. n i cant.

still. thanks for ya thoughts mate, means a lot.

That's really sad. It's really hard to accept that options to treat an illness are not there due to a lack of vigilance. We lost my father-in-law the same way (also to lung-cancer) So I understand completely the anger and feelings of helplessness. Not sure what else to say, just really sorry this is happening.

i wish i knew what to say other than i'm sorry that the NHS have, again, proved to be of no help and that someone who doesnt deserve it is suffering...

plenty of personal experience with this type of thing, would take far too long to list all that's wrong with them but i wish they'd get their act together and be useful for once. i dont think them being free is an excuse to be lazy. people in medicine should be kind and caring people who want the best for everyone, not people who cant be bothered to run some simple tests because they dont care if a person is unwell...

that's fucking awful, i'm so sorry. i have no experience at all with the NHS because i don't live in the UK, but i can't say they sound very good in the slightest if they missed that, they shouldn't have missed that. like Kimi said, just because they're free, it's no excuse to be lazy, that's just so terrible!